twenty_twenty_surgery's Datingish

I'm Back ;]

Fri, 17 Jul 2009 03:05:06 GMT

Yeah I'm back. I'm back with a new job and a new attitude =] A lot has happened in the last 4 months and I mean a lot has happened. Well, I have no time to blog about it but hopefully soon. Bye<3

Someone thinks he's my boss when he's nowhere near that position.

Wed, 11 Mar 2009 01:45:50 GMT

I work at a restaurant, well i've worked at a restaurant for almost 2 years. I was offered my job by a family friend. He started working March 06' and I in June 06'. Basically, 3 months apart. Days and hours used to be great. But now because of the economy, nothings been too good. I got laid off of my Tuesdays & Thursdays and i was left with Weekends and compromising work days with my co-worker. At first he was sorta nice about it. Now he has this impression that he can tell me when and when not to work. He thinks he's my boss. Oh boy is he wrong. So i asked him for last Saturday, which I worked. And i asked for this Saturday(6 hours) but he gave me Friday(5 hours) yeah one hour less but one hour is a lot when you work at a restaurant. I have something to do this Friday and i asked for Saturday. So he told me he couldn't give me Saturday because he needed the money and his father was furious that i worked on a Saturday. Mind you, when i dont work on weekends he gets 3 days of work which is a total of 17 hours which gives him 119$ plus tips. What in the world does he do with that money? Actually, 2 weeks worth of that kind of money. Really, i survive on like freakin 70 to 80$ for 2 weeks. Yes, two freakin weeks!!! I'm 17 and i pay for my Verizon phone bill (90$) and part of the comcast bill (70$) and i'm going down the shore for vacation during my Senior week and that's 186$. He's a college student, but he doesn't pay for much. He also has a phone bill but he doesnt hav texting so it's barely anything to pay. And he pays for gas & food. Oh by the way, most of the time he carpools to college. I told him not to come in on Saturday because i'll be there. I have been looking for another job since i do have experience in a couple of fields, but it's just so hard to get a damn job. Do i have a point or am I wrong?

"She only tells you her side of the story"

Sun, 08 Mar 2009 03:54:10 GMT

So for my previous blog, I blogged about my friend and her shitty shitty relationship with an asshole. Well, my friend (we'll call her Jen), her shitty boyfriend (we'll call him Tom,) and her two friends were supposed to take trip down the shore to go to a club for Jen's 18th birthday today. But yesterday they got into this major fight & they broke-up. I know, thank god but it won't be for long. She'll find an excuse to get back together with him like 'Oh Prom is coming up." And my two friends saw everything happen after they broke up. Jen went back home and called my two friends crying and by the time my two friends got to her house, she was gone. They drove around trying to find her and when they finally did, they witnessed Tom shaking her like a maniac and pinning her against a wall. He spit in her face and called her a bitch. So Jen then walked to my friends car and got in and Tom tried to get in but one of my friends sped of before he could get in. So after hearing all this nonsense today, I went along and texted him. Yes, I texted him because i had no idea where to find him and i don't feel like being hung up on, because i find that rude. And this man is not someone you can have a civil conversation with. So i just told him how he's an embarrassment to man kind and how he's a piece of shit. I told him that I hope she never gets back together with him. I called him whitetrash and I told him how pathetic it is that he spit in her face. I just went nuts. If i were there last night, I would have gone out of the car & I would have broken him into pieces. Am i nuts or do I seriously have a reason to go off on this guy? I haven't spoken to Jen since Tuesday but she doesn't want to be bothered so I don't bother her.

Disaster...well not really but sort of

Tue, 03 Mar 2009 19:01:11 GMT

I'm a total idiot, i was trying to figure out how to blog for like 10 minutes on a friends computer.

I have a friend who has been with her boyfriend for almost three years. But this is no lovey dovey relationship. They've had a lot of problems in the past which i won't describe or anything but let's just say she's had bruises. They've broke up so any times that i've just stopped counting. Now, she says she loves him and all but she wants to date other people. She doesn't say this to him, but to us (her friends.) So she listens to herself & she goes out to hangout with other guys she met somewhere. I'm not one to judge, but I do find it wrong how she always says "Oh i love him but i don't want to be with him. We always fight & i'm tired" but the next week she says things like "Oh i don't know what i was saying before, i was only kidding. He's the love of my life & he makes me happy. I can't break up with him." And she's one of those girls who makes up excuses like "But his birthday is right around the corner" when in reality his birthday is 4 months away. Or she says "But prom is coming up and we have a dog to pay for" I understand the dog sitaution, but if were a really nice guy he would finish the payments whether or not he was with her considering how he wanted the dog & promised he would pay for her. However, Prom i do not understand. She wants himto pay for everything because she feels bad asking her dad for the money (Yeah yeah i understand but they're not in a bad money situation.) And she feels as if she can't find another date, when in reality there are a couple of guys who want to go with her. My friends and I have been encouraging her to break-up with him. He his the definition of whitetrash. He's a horrible person. I'll give him credit for those couple of days a year that he's a nice guy but other than that, he doesn't deserve any credit. He is overly jealous. When she broke up with him once he left her awful, threatening, ugly, disgusting voicemails. It's kind of like a "If i can't haveyou than no one can" type of situation. Basically, everyone wants her to break-up with him, even her parents. They used to like him until he beat her, well not necessarily beat but he did choke her while she was on the ground and i think he punched her arm pretty hard during a fight on the street (she says it was her fault). I've tried multiple times to break it to her that their relationship is going to the shits & they should jsut end it now, but she doesn't want to take it like a woman. How can i break it to her lighlty without sounding so rude & mean? Also, do you know anyone who is or was in the same situation as her? Ahhh I'm so tired of typing.

Prom Rejection

Wed, 18 Feb 2009 19:48:02 GMT

I'm a Senior in High School and Prom is right around the corner. I'm not going to Prom for 3 reasons:
1. I went to my boyfriends Senior Prom last year.
2. I deeply despise 97% of my Graduating Class.
3. I'm saving loads of money & going down the shore anyway.

Now, I can't say I was formally asked to Prom, because I wasn't. It all went down on Xbox Live. I've known this friend of mine for 5 months or so & he asks me "Hey Poof, who are you going to prom with?" I said "No one. I'm not going to Prom. I'm driving down the shore that night." He then said "Awww damn. Alright." Five minutes later he said "I had such a bad day." I asked why & he answered "My original Prom Date can't go with me & I have no one to go with." Saying that made me think he was going to ask me if I said "Oh I don't have a date yet." I feel bad for saying I'm driving down the shore that night, because i'm really not. So what I want to know is, can anyone give me a couple of tips & pointers on how to let down a person asking you to prom? I don't want to be mean about it or anything. I kind of want to let anyone (If i get asked again) down easily. Thanksss

I have finally discovered the magic of Xbox Live<3

Fri, 06 Feb 2009 00:00:03 GMT

Recently I joined Xbox Live because a friend of mine told me to try it. And so, I played on Live. I played Gears of War 2 which is a personal favorite of mine. I fell in love with Xbox Live. I come home and i go straight to Live. I'm not the most awesome player ever, but I try. I love the team i play with and i just have so much fun. I just don't want it to become a sick addiction. If you play Xbox Live, send me your Gamertag & let's play =D

Finals

Fri, 30 Jan 2009 00:27:58 GMT

Thank you to the two guys who commented my previous post =]

Finals this week!! well tomorrow is the last day. I think i passed 1 of my finals so far. I'm so poooooped -_- I need to buy shoes. k this is pointless.bye

Mixed Signals and Possible Jealousy

Sat, 24 Jan 2009 04:58:25 GMT

I've known this guy for a couple of months now and in all honestly, he's known that i've had a boyfriend since we met. At first he sort of ignored it and flirted with me and was really friendly. Then there was a month where he didn't want much to do with me. He text an occasional "Hey what's up?" Recently we started talking and getting a bit closer. I think he had a crush on me when we first met but knew nothing would happen so he backed off. Now he's back to the flirting stage. He flirts with me, makes fun of me like a 3rd grader would, touches my ass, and occasionally makes comments on my body (from what i've heard, i'm kind of well proportioned.) Anyways, and sometimes he talk and he goes "bbutttt YOU have a boyfriend." or he would say something like "what would YOUR BOYFRIEND say?" I don't think he's much of a fan of my boyfriend considering how he basically makes the word boyfriend stand out in his sentences. He basically makes boyfriend boldface, underlined, and italicsized. He also kind gives off an angry vibe when he says the word. So it kind of makes me think as if he's kind of angry or jealous at the fact that I have boyfriend. And then with the flirting, ugh it's confusing. He could be very flirty for 2 days and then just come to a stop for 3 days and so on and so forth. I don't want a relationship with him or anything. I justt want to know why his actions come off as jealous. And also why he sends mixed signals.

My Sibling & I

Mon, 19 Jan 2009 16:29:28 GMT

I have an older brother (he's 18) and of course he means the world to me. Since the day I was born, me and him were always together. He couldn't sleep across the room for me so my mother put our cribs next to each other. We grew out of cribs and we were going to get seperate rooms but once again, we couldn't sleep alone. So we got a bunkbed and we shared a room. From that point on, we shared a room. Mind you, I'm barely ever home and neither is he. We're home after 10pm and i'm never in our room. Neither is he actually.

In the 3rd grade he was held back a year which put us in the same grade the following year when we moved to a different town. When we moved, we had seperate rooms for about a year and then it went back to us sharing a room. We were in the same grade (different last names. complicated story & yes we're both from the same parents.) with the same teachers & the same friends. No one but our friends and family knew we were siblings. So when our teachers saw our parents withh us on Parent Teacher night they were confused until we explained. I'm 17 and he's 18 and we share the biggest room in the house (he's actually behind me eating cereal while on the desktop computer) and we still share the same friends and we actually have classes together. We share an XBox 360, a 32 inch Sony HDTV, a Dell desktop computer (I have a laptop and he goes on it every once in a while). We share a lot of things.

And to my amazement, all of our friends were always okay with us sharing a room and never thought it was weird. As a matter of fact, I have never met anyone who thought that my brother & I sharing a room was weird until last month. Last month i was talking to a friend and i told him i shared a room with my older brother and he asked "How do you share a room with your brother? It's weird isn't it?" And i explained to him how it was and how it turned out to be this way and he still found it odd. This was the first person EVER who thought it was weird.

Now that my brother and I are seniors I started to think how me & him are going to live. We're going to college (hopefully) next fall. My friends and I want to move in together but we're so young so i'm not so sure if that is going to happen. He to wants to move out. We both know we're going to stay home for another couple of years. Now, when we do move out, how are going to deal with out eachother always being there (literally.) When he goes off to his track meets that are in Rhode Island or Virgina or NY i can't really sleep unless my lamp is on(i'm trying to change my ways haha.) Sometimes I stay up until he gets home. And for some reaason, we usually get up around the same time around 11am or 12pm. I dont know, I'm just going to keep living the present and not think about the future.

152 days left cupcakeeee =] haha. Trey<33

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Sun, 18 Jan 2009 02:54:06 GMT

All day today all i have been thinking about is Trey. I think about him everyday but not as much as today. I don't know why today of all days. The only thing that has been running through my mind is Trey. Trey Trey Trey Trey Trey Treyyyyy! I miss him tons. Miss him with all of my heart but I haven't felt super sad since the day he left. But today, I was upset. I'm just thinking about how he's doing in training. I need to get him off of my mind =\

Miss you tons & i'm totally looking forward to June<3